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I wanted to write about the soulmate / twin-flame connection ever since I met mine. This article is not just from my own personal view, but that of my soulmate, Luke, as well.
Soulmates can come in all forms of relationships from family to friends to lovers. We have a huge number of soulmates out there and meet lots of them throughout our lifetime. My definition of a soulmate is someone who you have a deep soul connection with. When you both meet, you normally get a feeling that you already know this person and that’s because you do! You both know each other on a soul level!!
Soulmates come in when the time is right for change. Some soulmates stay for our entire lives, others may come in and then leave once their job is done. Unless you meet a karmic soulmate, the ending of a soulmate relationship is not normally difficult as you or them just slip away, rather than it being an abrupt ending.
Many write that we only have one twin-flame and that they are completely different from a soulmate. I don’t particularly like the word twin-flame as Spirit has told me that what we class as a twin-flame is actually the highest soulmate connection we can achieve, but that this is a human word that we use to try and make things clearer for ourselves. Spirit says that there are 6 different levels of soulmates and each one has a unique energy vibration. Number 6 is the highest vibration of them all. Luke & I are a level 6!!
Spirit has also said that whilst we have many soulmates from levels 1-4, we only have a few that are at the higher vibrations of level 5 and only one or two at the vibration of a level 6. Therefore, we can’t really class these in the human terminology of a twin-flame as many believe we only have one twin-flame. However, as most of us only have one or 2 level 6 soulmates, then this can be likened to our human description of a twin-flame!
Each level of a soulmate relationship opens us up to a deeper connection with our spiritual path and ourselves. When we are ready the energy vibration of the soulmates we meet increases.
Many believe that when they meet their level 6 soulmate that their lives will suddenly become perfect! I want to turn that belief upside down and throw it out the window!! Because, when you do meet a level 6 soulmate, the opposite happens to start with!!
Level 6 connections are a completely different type of the perceived ‘romantic’ relationship. These reunions are are not really based on the physical in terms of how we would think of a ‘love’ relationship. Yes of course there is an attraction there, otherwise this would just be a ‘friend’ soulmate and then we wouldn’t be able to grow from these relationships as much. However, this level of vibration is so much more than sex! These are all about the ‘SOUL’. A level 6 connection means that we shine a mirror on each others souls. Our strengths tend to be their weaknesses and visa versa and this turns absolutely everything upside down!
A lot of people run away when they meet a level 6 connection as the relationship basically uncovers all of our darkest secrets and exposes all the things we don’t like about ourselves! If we run, then all we are doing is essentially running away from ourselves!
This type of connection highlights every single fault we have in glorious technicolour! This is one of the most scariest things that both myself & Luke have ever experienced and in the last two weeks, we have both tried to run away!! The whole point of this relationship is to show the other what needs to be healed and then support each other through the pain. When I read that last sentence it sounds so easy, but trust me it is completely the opposite! Mine & Luke’s relationship has brought up so many fears and issues on both sides that it feels like we are both going a little crazy. Intense is an understatement!!
The key word in a soulmate relationship is ‘COMMUNICATION’ as Luke reminds me on a daily basis!! We both understand that we need to basically tell each other every single feeling we have, especially those that come from a place of fear, to make this relationship work. Now this is an incredibly hard thing to do as a lot of the feelings that we have as human beings are completely irrational and are more to do with our own insecurities than our partner, but these are the things that need to be healed, so we have to speak up if we want to heal.
Luke & I cannot fathom how anyone that is not on a spiritual journey can have a a level 6 soulmate relationship!! We both want to grow & develop all our gifts and heal ourselves completely, so even when big issues and challenges arise we try to face them together. We understand what is happening and why this relationship is so intense, but it is still incredibly difficult. We also have the help of Spirit who gives us advice and also tells us what is in each other’s heads if we choose not to communicate!! So you can see there is nowhere to hide, even if we try!
Spirit had told me that the love of my life would come to me and I didn’t need to do anything about it!! I have been waiting (not so patiently!) for the last three years! In March, Luke called me up as he was interested in Earth Light Reiki, so we arranged a course. When the day came, I opened the door and was surprised he was quite young as for some reason I thought he was old!! He thought the same about me! The interesting thing was I had no idea who he was until three weeks later!! I knew we had a deep connection when we met as I had a huge amount of unconditional love for him pretty much immediately, but put this down to some of the past lives we have had together! The connection for me was like family, whereas Luke was immediately attracted to me! I wasn’t in the right place to recognise him as a soulmate due to my work commitments and other big changes in my life, but Spirit guided me to understand more about our connection, so I invited him to a gong healing and as they say the rest is history!! I realised I was attracted to him too and we started dating, which then turned into a relationship within a week!!
I don’t actually think I’ve ever cleared so much stuff in such a short space of time as I have with Luke, no Reiki course compares with the clearing you have to do when you meet a level 6 soulmate!! Luke has been going through the same amount of clearing and he is doing all this whilst also understanding how to use his new spiritual gifts!! Luke & I are the same age in terms of our souls as we were first stars that sat side by side, hence the incredible connection!!
Here are some of our thoughts about a level 6 connection:
~ A deep immediate connection to each other that feels like family
~ Compassion and a deep sense of love when you know nothing about each other!!
~ Knowing how each other is feeling or what they are thinking without even saying a word. This is very useful when you find it hard to communicate as we just say what each other is thinking or feeling to start a conversation about any fears that have arisen!
~ Seeing complete unconditional love in each others eyes – this is my favourite one!!
~ Feeling “complete” when we are near each other even when we are doing separate activities! It’s just nice to know the other is nearby.
~ Bringing out the best and worst in each other. This is incredibly hard at times and we have to remind ourselves and each other that we wanted this so we could heal and grow!!
~ Increased spiritual abilities – Both of us have increased our vibration of light and our connection to Spirit due to each other.
~ Feeling like we are both going crazy and that the relationship is moving way too fast, but at the same time knowing deep down it is completely right!! Both of us feel that we have achieved a year’s worth of dating in the space of two weeks and are already talking about living together!
~ The wonderful feeling of unconditional love & trust (when we are not in fear mode or clearing!!) We are both looking forward to more of this, once we have dealt with the big issues!
~ Everything that needs healing within comes to the surface and brings with it intense fears! We know this stuff needs to come up so we try to support each other through it.
~ We do tend to feel like we live in our own little bubble when we are together, so sometimes it’s hard to get things done!
~ Knowing we have been brought together for a spiritual purpose & to learn lessons from each other.
~ This relationship inspires us both to live our dreams, work on our goals and share our spiritual truth with the world!
~ There is nothing hidden between us because the telepathic bond cannot hide a thing even if the physical bodies try to hold the truth back.
I hope you have enjoyed reading more about a level 6 soulmate connection! It is a wonderful, crazy and sometimes incredibly scary relationship, but whatever happens between Luke & I in the future we both know that this is meant to be as it is right now! We understand that we both chose this path and if we can get through the fear then the other side must be truly amazing and we can’t wait to get there!!
If you feel like you have met your level 6 soulmate, then remember it will be difficult, scary and intense, but it is so worth it when you see the love in each others eyes for the first time after the initial fears have been released. Our advice to each of you is to embrace this connection, see it for what it is, which is spiritual and soul growth and get used to being uncomfortable (Haha this ties in so well with my last energy update!). Please also remember the BIG word for this type of soulmate connection, which is ‘COMMUNICATION’ and you won’t go wrong!!
Love Sarah & Luke ♥