December is always a time when I look back over the year that has nearly gone and think about my hopes & dreams for the following year. As I was sitting down to write this, I felt guided to read back over my energy forecast for 2016 to remind myself of what Spirit had said about this year (2016 Overview). One part really stood out for me, which was this:
“Flexibility is key in 2016, so our phrase should be ‘Go with the flow!’ So, if you feel like you are pushing for a specific outcome or putting all your energy into something, ask yourself are you going with the flow?!”
After all the craziness of the last few months and the big emotional work I did during November, I thought I hadn’t taken the time to ask myself this question!! This is an important question for all of us and will continue to be going into 2017! This month is an especially good time to ask yourself if you are going with the flow as December is always such a busy month! So, try to remember to take a moment each day to check in with you!
We all probably view December and Christmas as a time to focus on our loved ones and while this is wonderful and lovely to do, the energy of this month suggests we actually put ourselves first this month!
November brought up a lot of old emotions to be released and many of these were related to us not feeling good enough or worthy! If you stop for a moment and think about last month, were you triggered in any way by another and did any emotions come up about not feeling good enough? Did you judge yourself in that moment and get angry or feel sad & hurt? If you did, then know this is completely normal and the majority of us are working through these feelings of unworthiness as we are working on increasing our self-love!
2016 was all about self-mastery! Self-love & acceptance play a MASSIVE role is this! As we are nearing the end of 2016, anything that is blocking that flow of love is coming up to be reviewed!! Even though it may not feel like it at times, we are all stepping forward and moving further into our own power than ever before! One of the key ways to do this is by increasing our self-love and accepting who we are right now!
Obviously, when someone or our own thoughts trigger our feelings of not being good enough, then the emotions that accompany that are tough! You are not alone and many of us right now are still continuing to work through these feelings of self-doubt. Letting go of unworthiness in any form (not being smart enough, beautiful enough, happy enough, brave enough, successful enough, good enough, etc) is one of the hardest things to do. I know because I am doing it too!!
We may each feel unworthy about something specific, but every single feeling that we have about not feeling good enough in whatever form comes back to self-love!
Reviewing anything that has come up for you recently is incredibly beneficial during December and if you can, I suggest taking some time to sit quietly and do this work now up until 12th December as this feels like the best time to really allow and surrender to these emotions!
We have released a HUGE amount of grief over the last month as a collective and if you were part of my last attunement event, you would have seen that was a key part in the additional healing we all received. We have been clearing our ancestral lines as well as our own grief and this has helped us to get to the next layer of what we need to work on to bring in more love!
The more self-love we have, the more love we have to give, so by working on ourselves we are actually helping those around us too! It is easy to forget that we are important!! As empaths, healers and intuitives, it is so easy to just want to keep giving as that is part of why we are here, so we are propelled forward by wanting and even needing at times to make everything better for everyone else!
We need to remember that there has to be an energy exchange as this is how things work down here! This means that if we give our time, money, love etc to someone then if someone else offers us something we should accept it with love! Thus, the circle of energy continues! It is easy to just keep giving, but what happens is that we end up feeling tired, drained and perhaps even a little resentful or angry as all our energy has gone out to everyone else!
To keep the energy flowing, we can also give energy back to ourselves too, just by taking a rest, saying no to something we don’t want to do, having fun etc. When we give back to ourselves, this is a form of self-love, which is very important for us to do this month due to the feelings of unworthiness that have come up for many of us recently!
I know December is a busy time, but YOU are very important and this month you need to make sure that you are also giving yourself lots of LOVE in whatever form that feels good to you! Make sure you take the time to treat yourself as well as others as this will really help clear out any old lingering feelings of unworthiness.
As I am writing this, Spirit just said really loudly,
“It is TIME to let these feelings go. You are more important than you know. Treat yourself with respect and love. Show others the way.”
Spirit, as always, sums everything up perfectly!! Please take good care of you this month and LOVE yourself first, then everything else will fall into place!
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Wishing you a blissful & joyful December.
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